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18th June 2010, 06:12 PM
Three words that make relationships better
Three-Word Phrases, can be tools to help develop every relationship. There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words. When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured. The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship. ~ Let me help: Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out. ~ I understand you: People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship. ~ I respect you: Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships. ~ I miss you: Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other “I miss you.” This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say “I miss you.” ~ Maybe you’re right: This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication when you say “maybe you’re right” is the humility of admitting, “maybe I’m wrong”. Let’s face it. When you have an argument with someone, all you normally do is solidify the other person’s point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying “maybe you’re right” can open the door to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the other person. ~ Please forgive me: Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday. ~ I thank you: Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude. ~ Count on me: A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating “you can count on me.” ~ I’ll be there: If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase “I’ll be there.” Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility. ~ Go for it: We are all unique individuals. Don’t try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to “go for it.” ~ I love you: Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words: “I love you.” Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is gone.  "LAMHA"mujhko acchaa nahiiN lagtaa ko’ii hamnaam teraa , ko’ii tujhsaa ho to phir naam bhii tujhsaa rakhe.... |
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19th June 2010, 08:38 PM
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21st June 2010, 05:27 PM
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Sab khair tou hai Sajid sahab....????..............  Zainy PalkoN ki baand ko tod ke daaman pe aa gira Ek aaNsu mere zabt ki tauheen kar gaya... Nm |
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21st June 2010, 05:53 PM
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@ Sajid...... wahhhhhhhhhhhhhh..... kya khoob tarika hai kisi thread par reply karne ka.....is izzat-afzai ka shukriya ..... @ Zainy................... aapne bhi MOD hone ka kya khoob farz nibhaya hai.... aap ka bhi shukriya..... lagta hai yaha SDC pe achchi baatein aur achche thread ki koi izzat nahiiiiii.... anyways....i m sorry ke maine itne khoobsurat lafz aap sab ke saath share kiye..... "LAMHA"mujhko acchaa nahiiN lagtaa ko’ii hamnaam teraa , ko’ii tujhsaa ho to phir naam bhii tujhsaa rakhe.... |
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21st June 2010, 05:57 PM
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21st June 2010, 05:58 PM
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maine Sajid sahab se unke is tarah ke comment ki wajah talab ki hai, jab tak woh reply nahi kar dete, aap mujh per koi ilzaam nahi lagaa sakti haiN,jab woh reply karenge tab hi koi action liya jaa sakta hai.. MaiN khud bhi is tarah ke comments ke saqt khilaaf huuN, isiliye chahti huuN ke Sajid sahab isi thread per is baat ka jawaab deiN....ke unko is thread per kya bakwaas laga... Zainy PalkoN ki baand ko tod ke daaman pe aa gira Ek aaNsu mere zabt ki tauheen kar gaya... Nm |
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21st June 2010, 07:07 PM
Arey arey Lamha jee aap to bura man gaye............maine to yuhi joke kiya tha aur aap shayed joke samjhe hi nahi mere comments me bhi THREE words the......aapne gaur nahi kiya.
Bakwaas Bandh Kar................3 words. Aur koi confusion na ho isiliye maine subject me mention bhi kiya hai ke Just Kidding bakayda laughing icon bhi banaye hai.............anyway shayed meri galti hai mujhe aapse mazak nahi karna chahiye tha. Main apne kiye ke liye aapse mafi chahta hu yaqeenan aapne ek khoobsurat thread banaya hai. Aainda aapse kisi kism ka mazak nahi karuga. Aur ab jab maine mafi mang li hai to main samjahta hu yeh mamla yahi khatam hua. Ghayel Par tujhe bevafa bhi kehna achcha nahi lagta... Mob.: +971 501297654
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21st June 2010, 11:18 PM
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mai maafi chahti hu aapse kyon ki ghalati meri hai ke maine aapke mazaak ko sanjeeda samaj liya... aur maine aapka likha subject bhi nahi padha... actually mai already kisi se gussa thi aur yaha aate hi aapka reply padha aur kisi aur ka gussa aap ke upar utaar diya....i m sorry... i hope u understand..... "LAMHA"mujhko acchaa nahiiN lagtaa ko’ii hamnaam teraa , ko’ii tujhsaa ho to phir naam bhii tujhsaa rakhe.... |
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22nd June 2010, 12:49 AM
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SDC ka har member khush rahe muskurata rahe meri bas yahi dua hai ha agar kabhi anjane me meri wajah se kisi ke dil ko thes pohche to main kya kar sakta hu aakhir main bhi insaan hu. Waise aaj ke baad kabhi koi frustration ho ya kisi par gussa utarna ho to again in 3 words simple solution hai mere pass....... Main hu na........... Par tujhe bevafa bhi kehna achcha nahi lagta... Mob.: +971 501297654
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2nd July 2010, 06:42 PM
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