Womanhood

[friendnidhi]

I really did not know where to post this so that it has the maximum reach - i hope all of you would go throught his and support for a noble cause

Womanhood - A blessing in disguise or a curse in divulge? A question for which there is no one answer. The answer to this question can be both ways. We all know that all fingers are not equal similarly all people are not the same and make us answer the asked question in 2 ways
Today I want to discuss about Womanhood – What has been lost and what has been achieved and you decide whether it is a blessing or a curse
This is 1 of many girls – telling u her story
I a girl – tender aged got married when I started my teenage.
I lost my childhood as a kid however I achieved to learn to be a wife and a daughter in law when I should have learned English, Mathematics, and Hindi Etc...
I became a mother the very next year – a baby girl in my hands crying for maternal love, warmth
I lost my dolls, my innocence, my purity however I achieved to learn to be a mother when I should have been playing in my mother’s lap
I – living with my husband away from my parents in law learned that my family income does not allow me to have a child – so I have to give away my child to my father n mother in law
I lost my doll and I achieved to learn to live alone, without feelings
We could not go and meet our daughter often because we did not want her to recognize us
I lost to be a mother and I achieved to learn to hide away from my child
Then I gave birth to another child – a baby girl again – We had enough income now to keep this child with us but still not enough to bring my daughter back
This time I lost to be a real mother – and I achieved to learn to be selfish n shrewd
Our daughter used to come and meet me – like guests at home used to meet us and go away
I lost my daughters confidence her trust her love everything, and I achieved to learn to still live like that
Years passed and I had a son – and other things going on the same way. My children did not like that girl coming to our house and stay with us
I lost this time – which I can’t explain – and I learned to call my own daughter “that girl”
My daughter living with her grandparents – lived for them and only for them
She lost the love of her parents – and she achieved to learn to give what she never got
Time was passing away – and suddenly I got a blow. I lost my husband in an accident
I lost what can never be regained – and I achieved to learn to go on like a dead soul

“That girl” 1st lost her love then her grandparents and she still continued living like her mother
She lost soon enough what lost in my childhood – innocence and achieved to learn everything which her aged children should not learn
Today I am a homemaker taking care of my 2 kids and “that girl” is taking care of me and her siblings as the bread earner of the family.
A loss and an achievement on each phase of life – so what is it a blessing in disguise or a curse in divulge. If it is still a blessing I have nothing to say and If a curse I request you to forward this message to all
1. Stop Child marriage
2. Stop thinking girls as garbage
3. Stop giving birth to children if u can’t manage their expenditure

[zainy]

Truly a masterpeice Nidhi ji..

Thanks for sharing this with us..............

[sunita thakur]

Nidhi jii, heart touching !..............................thanks for sharing

[friendnidhi]

Originally Posted by zainy

Truly a masterpeice Nidhi ji..

Thanks for sharing this with us..............

Thankyou so much zainy.........keep coming..............................

[friendnidhi]

Originally Posted by sunita virender

Nidhi jii, heart touching !..............................thanks for sharing

Thankyou so much Sunita di.........keep coming..............

Regards
Nidhi Agarwal

[saadat tahir]

dear F_N
very incisive and poignant points there

i posted my poem about child marriages..
check it out

http://www.shayri.com/forums/showthread.php?t=72900

sat