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Originally Posted by zainy
Yahi tou prob hai zidd sahib, log kehte kuch haiN karte kuch aur haiN...
Innumerable pretentious ppl around us...
Ladki ko to janm se pehle hi azaab hai zindegi india me,..zindegi ke har mod per sirf zillat aur beizzati.....
I will add stress and pain to the above facts from you Sis,
paida hone se pehle se hi maa baap pata lagana chahte hai ladki hai ya ladka... ladki ho tou abortion...huh!!..scanning centres me doctors ko warning di gayi hai ke gender na bataiyeiN...janm se pehle hi beizzati....
Bitter truth , yes...
khud maa baap ladkoN ko zyada importance dete haiN, ladke ko post graduatin,ladki ko graduation ke baad shadi yeh general trend hai Indian community ka, ladki ko zyada padhaker kya karna hai...aagey chalker ghar hi tou sambhalna hai.....yeh hamari society ki soch hai..
ladkiyoN ka akele baahar nikalna , ghuuma ,phirna ,kisi bhi tarah ki koi bhi social activity me part lena....is only for some highly educated and sophisticated ppl.....not for common public..
In short you mean the above is accessible to the privileged few....
Shadi ke baad,... tumhare pati, tumhare devta haiN..Kuch bhi kahe bardaasht karo....maare pitay tou bhi bardaasht karo....yeh seekh ghar waale hi dete haiN..
Pati dev..unka kaam sirf office jaana....baqi ghar ki saari zimmedaari,biwi saheba ki, rasoi ki zimmedaari, bachchon ki zimmedaari,safaai, ghar ka saara kaam, everything ...she don’t have any right to rest...beemar padhne ki bhi fursat nahi milti...above all pati sahib aur sasuraal waloN ko har waqt sirf shikayat hi rehti...
Saari umr do ghadi khud ke liye jeene ke liye taras jaati hai bechari....
Regarding ladkiyoN per ho rahe physical atyachaar per...its truely unbearlable and absolutely terrible..
log jo badi badi bateiN karte haiN, naari hamari maa ..hamari behan..kahaaN hai woh log?... KahaaN hai izzat.....??
yeh bateiN sirf kitaboN aur speeches ke liye haiN...in batoN ko maanne waala koi nahi...
Ab sawaal ..
Ghalti kiski..??
“WE” and our society are responsible .
Yes all of "us" are responsible.
Westernization ke chakker meiN log apne morals kho rahe haiN...
Lottttttt more to say .....will be back.............
Right now..
I can only wish, hope and pray that some day..
..May all women in India enjoy Equal Rights like men ,and live life in true freedom ..
Aameen!!
Aameen
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Will add one thing..... take for example Australia... aaj bhi yahaan mardaon aur aurtaon ki pay mayn ayk badaa gap haye... don know how.. coz law treats both of them equal there... even then women with same careers as men end up earning significantly less than men.. sarkaar wahaan ki koshish bhi kar rahee haye nayay kaanoon banany ki isko address karnay par itnay lambay arsay say itnay advance mulk nay true samaantaa nahee haasil kii.. kya yay dikhaway ka example nahee?? ki qanoon dono ko equal haq dayta haye par jab baat practicality ki aatee haye to somhow mahilayn end up on the shorter side...