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Topic of the Week...2/3/13 - 2nd March 2013, 11:45 AM

Doston,

badi khushi ho rahi hai aaj mujhe ye announce karte ke ek baar phir se hum ye silsilaa shuru kaarne jaa rahe hainn jiska naam hai Topic of the week...

ab ek topic ke liye hum 1 hafte ka waqt muqarrar kar rahe hain... jisme members apni apni raay alag alag pehloo par de sakte hain...

to is baar ka topic hai......


facebook ke chalan me aa jane se haamaari shayri dot com website pe acche/ bure kya praabhaaav pade hain.....????

apni raaay se hame mukhaaatib karaaeN...



rules ke liye ye link follow kareN...


http://www.shayri.com/forums/showthread.php?t=75264

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Doston,

badi khushi ho rahi hai aaj mujhe ye announce karte ke ek baar phir se hum ye silsilaa shuru kaarne jaa rahe hainn jiska naam hai Topic of the week...

ab ek topic ke liye hum 1 hafte ka waqt muqarrar kar rahe hain... jisme members apni apni raay alag alag pehloo par de sakte hain...

to is baar ka topic hai......


facebook ke chalan me aa jane se haamaari shayri dot com website pe acche/ bure kya praabhaaav pade hain.....????

apni raaay se hame mukhaaatib karaaeN...



rules ke liye ye link follow kareN...


http://www.shayri.com/forums/showthread.php?t=75264

shukriyaa

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Interesting topic.............




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Very interesting indeed........... Good News hai Shaad bhaee! Will join in soon ( in about 5 hours InshaAllah!)


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2nd March 2013, 12:49 PM

hmmm...kaun sa side lun ye decide karna badaa muslil hai...

devils advocate ban jata hu....
so..
'buraa effect padaa hai'......matlab 'con'

ye mera submission hai.

1] ek shaks ke paas waqt limited hai, vhahe jito ho usse matlab nahi...
to pahle agar koi SDc par jitna waqt guzarta tha , ab vo waqt divide ho hata 2 ya ziyada sites me.
isse sdc ko nuksaan pahucha hai.

kyuki ek community me members interract karte hai, jisse community me vibrancy aati hai , agar log waqt hi kam den to mel jol ,interraction kam ho jata hai...jisse community ke impersonal ho jaane ka dar hai...

theek waise hi jaise bade shahro me waqt ki kami ki wajah se log apne hi neighbours se jyada sarokaar nahi rakhte.

2]specialised websites jaise ki SDc ka ek focus hota hai . jo us site ki pahchaan hoti hai....waha ke community members , us hisaab se apne aap ko dhaalte hai aur apne aap ko pesh karte hai. general websites like facebook , ek informality breed karti hai...jo SDC jaise sites ke motto ke khilaaf jayegi.

3] Sdc jaisi sites ek aadmi ki personality development me aid karti hai. ek aadmi ko gratify karti hai, use educate karti hai, face book jaisi sites ek shaks se time waste karwati hai , use uska addict banwati hai jisse stress, depression etc ka aadmi shikaar ho sakta hai.

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facebook ke aane se SDC ko bahut haani pahuchi hai , kyuki log kam aate hai. baki aur problem outline kiya hai upar...magar isse badaa problem koi aur nahi hai...jisse Sdc ke wajood hi ko thes pahuche.
   
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I agree with zidd sahab,,,facebook se sdc ko nuqsaan hi nuqsaan pahuncha hai....saare members wahaan busy hogaye hain....sdc ke liye time nahi nikaal paate...

Fb se sdc ko sirf ek hi faida hai....woh yeh ke....fb ek social site hai..tou bas sdc ki promotion acchi tarah se ho sakti hai...more and more ppl will get to know about this site.....




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I agree with zidd sahab,,,facebook se sdc ko nuqsaan hi nuqsaan pahuncha hai....saare members wahaan busy hogaye hain....sdc ke liye time nahi nikaal paate...

Fb se sdc ko sirf ek hi faida hai....woh yeh ke....fb ek social site hai..tou bas sdc ki promotion acchi tarah se ho sakti hai...more and more ppl will get to know about this site.....
zainyji ,i differ on your second point.
chunki ye site ek specialised site hai aur koi general site nahi.....isko publicity ki zarurat nahi. baliki publicity nuksaan pahucha sakti hai., non serious members , simply curious people and people not of literary bent , sirf dosti ke lihaaj se jaoin kar sakte hai...jisse Sdc ko koi faida nahi hoga....

ye baat specially SDC ke liye ziyada applicable hai. kyuki iska naam iska sabse bada asset hai....ye 'naam' ka faida kisi aur site ko nahi so vo publicity ke hathkande apna sakte hai...SDc ko zarurat nahi.
   
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zainyji ,i differ on your second point.
chunki ye site ek specialised site hai aur koi general site nahi.....isko publicity ki zarurat nahi. baliki publicity nuksaan pahucha sakti hai., non serious members , simply curious people and people not of literary bent , sirf dosti ke lihaaj se jaoin kar sakte hai...jisse Sdc ko koi faida nahi hoga....

ye baat specially SDC ke liye ziyada applicable hai. kyuki iska naam iska sabse bada asset hai....ye 'naam' ka faida kisi aur site ko nahi so vo publicity ke hathkande apna sakte hai...SDc ko zarurat nahi.
10 non serious members me se 1 bhi serious member ho tou bura nahi hai.....

Yeh baat aapne bilkul sahi kahi ke sdc ko publicity ki zarurat nahi, i totally agree with u...

per kuch log jinhe iske baare me pata nahi...unko pata chalega....shayed fb ke zariye log is platform tak pahunch sake....who knows.....




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bahot bahot shukriyaa Zidd saahab aur Zainy jii....

aap dono ki bbaatoN ki gahraaiyaan mujhe samajh aaa rahi hain.... bahot jald apne nazariye ke saath bhi haazir hounga...

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hmmm...kaun sa side lun ye decide karna badaa muslil hai...

devils advocate ban jata hu....
so..
'buraa effect padaa hai'......matlab 'con'

ye mera submission hai.

1] ek shaks ke paas waqt limited hai, vhahe jito ho usse matlab nahi...
to pahle agar koi SDc par jitna waqt guzarta tha , ab vo waqt divide ho hata 2 ya ziyada sites me.
isse sdc ko nuksaan pahucha hai.

kyuki ek community me members interract karte hai, jisse community me vibrancy aati hai , agar log waqt hi kam den to mel jol ,interraction kam ho jata hai...jisse community ke impersonal ho jaane ka dar hai...

theek waise hi jaise bade shahro me waqt ki kami ki wajah se log apne hi neighbours se jyada sarokaar nahi rakhte.

2]specialised websites jaise ki SDc ka ek focus hota hai . jo us site ki pahchaan hoti hai....waha ke community members , us hisaab se apne aap ko dhaalte hai aur apne aap ko pesh karte hai. general websites like facebook , ek informality breed karti hai...jo SDC jaise sites ke motto ke khilaaf jayegi.

3] Sdc jaisi sites ek aadmi ki personality development me aid karti hai. ek aadmi ko gratify karti hai, use educate karti hai, face book jaisi sites ek shaks se time waste karwati hai , use uska addict banwati hai jisse stress, depression etc ka aadmi shikaar ho sakta hai.

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facebook ke aane se SDC ko bahut haani pahuchi hai , kyuki log kam aate hai. baki aur problem outline kiya hai upar...magar isse badaa problem koi aur nahi hai...jisse Sdc ke wajood hi ko thes pahuche.
Tasleemaat bhaiyo wa behno!
Zidd bhaee mayn aapsay sau feesad muttafiq hoon, fb say is site nuqsaan zaroor pahuncha haye:
Mayray nazariyay ko zeel nuqtay bayaan kartay hayn

1. Site ki shuruaat mayn loag do wajah say aatay thay ayk tou shayri kay shaayqeen jo shayri parhnay khojnay aatay thay aur doosree wajah apnay likhay kalaamaon ko ayk platform par paysh karnay aur kuch hadd tak seekhnay. Is dusree zaroorat ko log fb par poori kar rahay hayn kaafee hadd tak.
2. And yes absolutely bang on target re the time factor or more precisely the limited amount of available / free time.
3.Yes sdc is a purposeful site and its name is an asset its not a social networking site but having said that it does serve as one for poetry community to an extent.
4. But I will differ on the part that it doesn't need publicity, I would rather say it needs promotion atleast amongst those seeking the knowledge and also more importantly amongst the admirers of poetry. Fb can serve this purpose very well if utilised effectively. I mean for example if people choose to post their work on their own fb page and that one attracts right kind of attention and they can use that audience which is admiring the art in the true sense, they can link or point to sdc there.

Yes I too feel that fb has proven to be not so helpful to sdc.

Waqt ki kamee haye... will elaborate more in the near future.

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Main Zidd sahiib ji ki baatoN se 100% sehmat hu...ki FB ke aa jane se SDC ko koi fayada nahi hua hai balki nuqsaan hua hai...!

agar pehle hamare paas 2 hrs hote thy din meiN to wo sirf aur sirf SDC ke liye hote thy...aur ab FB par apne kai clgmate hai kai rishtedaar hai to dil karta ki unse bhi online baat ho jaye...ab roz roz kisi ko phone karke to baat kar nahi sakte yeh aik free ka sasta sa zariya hai apne dosto aur rishtedaaroN se contact meiN rahne ka, to har koi esko prefer karta hai...to waqt bant gya na SDC ka

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hmmm...kaun sa side lun ye decide karna badaa muslil hai...

devils advocate ban jata hu....
so..
'buraa effect padaa hai'......matlab 'con'

ye mera submission hai.

1] ek shaks ke paas waqt limited hai, vhahe jito ho usse matlab nahi...
to pahle agar koi SDc par jitna waqt guzarta tha , ab vo waqt divide ho hata 2 ya ziyada sites me.
isse sdc ko nuksaan pahucha hai.

kyuki ek community me members interract karte hai, jisse community me vibrancy aati hai , agar log waqt hi kam den to mel jol ,interraction kam ho jata hai...jisse community ke impersonal ho jaane ka dar hai...

theek waise hi jaise bade shahro me waqt ki kami ki wajah se log apne hi neighbours se jyada sarokaar nahi rakhte.

2]specialised websites jaise ki SDc ka ek focus hota hai . jo us site ki pahchaan hoti hai....waha ke community members , us hisaab se apne aap ko dhaalte hai aur apne aap ko pesh karte hai. general websites like facebook , ek informality breed karti hai...jo SDC jaise sites ke motto ke khilaaf jayegi.

3] Sdc jaisi sites ek aadmi ki personality development me aid karti hai. ek aadmi ko gratify karti hai, use educate karti hai, face book jaisi sites ek shaks se time waste karwati hai , use uska addict banwati hai jisse stress, depression etc ka aadmi shikaar ho sakta hai.

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facebook ke aane se SDC ko bahut haani pahuchi hai , kyuki log kam aate hai. baki aur problem outline kiya hai upar...magar isse badaa problem koi aur nahi hai...jisse Sdc ke wajood hi ko thes pahuche.
Ek baat puchni thi aapse zidd sahab..........i know its off topic, per ab saat din tak yahaan bolna hi hai tou thoda bohat off topic hi sahi......

Baat yeh ke fb se stress aur depression waali baat samajh nahi aayi?.....woh kaise?...




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ab aapne poocha hi zid saahab se hai to main beech me kya kahun..... lol

waise main to zidd saahab se sahmat hoon ke chahe jaisa bhi ho stress reduce to ho jata hai FB se.....

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ab aapne poocha hi zid saahab se hai to main beech me kya kahun..... lol

waise main to zidd saahab se sahmat hoon ke chahe jaisa bhi ho stress reduce to ho jata hai FB se.....

khair wahi jawaab deiN to behatar.....
Zidd sahab ne stress reduce nahi kaha,.....stress increase kaha hai......




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zainyji ,aapko jawaab dene se pahle mai shaad sahab ko kuch kahna chahta hu...

shaad sahab ,mera point alag tha...mai kah raha hu FB se stress aur depression badta hai...

ab continue karta hu....zainyji....

stress isliye kaha kyuki FB ke wajah se ek shaks ki 2 personality ban jaati hai...ye mai aapko aik ingenous arguement de raha hu pahle...uske baad established arguments point out karta hu...

to ab ye do personality ko match karna bhi ek stress haai...log out karne par bhi ye dusri hasti miTti nahi. balki aur bechain ho jati hai...ye soch kar ki mere peeche kya ho raha hai......this induces a permanent state of agitation causing stress.

dusri baat ye ke FB ki wajah se you are permanently awake ( not in the physical sense). one person does not go into an off mode , causing an overload in the brain. consequence to aap samjh hi rahin . hongi...

baki jo known stress ke causes hai vo ye ke info miss hone ka darr makes a person anxious ,
chunki fb par generally apne baare me koi negative nahi bolta , so apne dosto ki photos dekhkar , unke vacations etc ki , envy ki feeling aati hai jo stress paida karti hai(this fact is well documented)
   
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zainyji ,aapko jawaab dene se pahle mai shaad sahab ko kuch kahna chahta hu...

shaad sahab ,mera point alag tha...mai kah raha hu FB se stress aur depression badta hai...

ab continue karta hu....zainyji....

stress isliye kaha kyuki FB ke wajah se ek shaks ki 2 personality ban jaati hai...ye mai aapko aik ingenous arguement de raha hu pahle...uske baad established arguments point out karta hu...

to ab ye do personality ko match karna bhi ek stress haai...log out karne par bhi ye dusri hasti miTti nahi. balki aur bechain ho jati hai...ye soch kar ki mere peeche kya ho raha hai......this induces a permanent state of agitation causing stress.

dusri baat ye ke FB ki wajah se you are permanently awake ( not in the physical sense). one person does not go into an off mode , causing an overload in the brain. consequence to aap samjh hi rahin . hongi...

baki jo known stress ke causes hai vo ye ke info miss hone ka darr makes a person anxious ,
chunki fb par generally apne baare me koi negative nahi bolta , so apne dosto ki photos dekhkar , unke vacations etc ki , envy ki feeling aati hai jo stress paida karti hai(this fact is well documented)
Wow!!...sounds quite right.......

Per ek baat bataiye aap ko to maine kabhi fb per dekha hi nahi, phir itna zyada kaise jaante haiN aap .....Post FB stress ke baare me..




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Wow!!...sounds quite right.......

Per ek baat bataiye aap ko to maine kabhi fb per dekha hi nahi, phir itna zyada kaise jaante haiN aap .....Post FB stress ke baare me..
isme jaanewali kya baat hai?

common derivation hai ye to...logic hai.
aur uska proof aap hi to hai !!!!

agar Sdc ko fb ka ek microcosm bana diya jaaye to maine aapko hamesha sdc par saaye ki tarah muDraate huye dekha hai...chahe jo bhi waqt ho....

topic personal ho jayega varna aapko batata ki logo ka aapke is behaviour se kya kya opinion hai...ek ne to aapko SDC ka bhoot hi kah diya jaise koi zainy asl me ho hi nahi.lol

aur maine aapke behaviour se ,jo bhi maine kaha vo infer kar liya....common sense and logic , elementary .
   
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isme jaanewali kya baat hai?

common derivation hai ye to...logic hai.
aur uska proof aap hi to hai !!!!

agar Sdc ko fb ka ek microcosm bana diya jaaye to maine aapko hamesha sdc par saaye ki tarah muDraate huye dekha hai...chahe jo bhi waqt ho....

topic personal ho jayega varna aapko batata ki logo ka aapke is behaviour se kya kya opinion hai...ek ne to aapko SDC ka bhoot hi kah diya jaise koi zainy asl me ho hi nahi.lol

aur maine aapke behaviour se ,jo bhi maine kaha vo infer kar liya....common sense and logic , elementary .
hahahahaha.....LOL.....

lekin FB ke aane se sdc ko atleast meri taraf se koi nuksaan nahi pahuncha......I still give equal time to both, ...




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hahahahaha.....LOL.....

lekin FB ke aane se sdc ko atleast meri taraf se koi nuksaan nahi pahuncha......I still give equal time to both, ...
you ahve actually answred the question now...

ab 24 ghante ko double to nahi kar sakte?

pahle aap 24 ghante yaha rahti thi...ab equal time dene se aap 24 ghante sdc par rahti hai aur 24 FB par.........matlab ye ke SDC ke liye zainyji ka mahina 30 din se 15 din ka ho gaya.

chunki mahine me se din ghat gaye , isliye SDC ka nuksaan ho gaya.

aapke liye magar 2 mahine ho gaye...15 din aur 15 din ke....

aapko ek faida ho gaya isse ...ab aap 1000 mahine zinda rahe ki bajai 2000 mahine zinda rahengi......chunki ab zainyji ke mahine bad gaye , SDC ko faida ho jayega kyuki ab sdc ko zainyji ke presence ke jyada mahine milenge.

ab sab ghata ,baDaa kar dekh lijiye ke FB se SDC ko faida huaa ya nuksaan.
   
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GOOD GOD.....!!.. what an analysis............hmmmmmmmmmmmmm







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Zidd saahab ab kaafi hadd tak aapki baateN mere chote se bheje me ghustee nazar aa rahi hain...

lekin jaisaa ke aapne kaha hai ke FB se dual personality waali baat hoti hai aur mental stress hota hai.... lekin jaisaa ke maine dekhahai , zyadatar waqt akelepean me jab hum net pe jaate hain... facebook pe login karte hain, to wo saare dost maoujood hoe hain jo SDC ke bhihain, school, colleges ke hain.. aur wahan pe mahaz shayri nahi , jokes, stories, photos videos sab hota hai, isliye wo ek entertainment ka complete package hota hai...
isliye most of the working guys use to spend time in FB to take some relief... sath hi chat ho jati hai, purane dost milte hain to in sab se khushi hi haasil hoti hai...

Stress waali baat logical to lagtiihai par practical nahi.... ho sakta hai kuch logon ko aisi cheeezen acchi nahi lagtii... lekin its totally depends from person to person..

SDC ko nuksaan pahoch raha hai.... to uski wajah bas yahi hai ke logon ka rujhaan FB ki taraf badhta ja raha hai.. aur wo isliye ke wo unhe mental stress se chutkara dilaati hai...

ye mera maanna hai, aur zaruri nahi hai ke sahi ho.. magar ye open topic for discussion hai isliye maine bhi apni baat rakh di hai...

Zidd sahab aapke nazariye ka intzara rahega ispe..

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Zidd saahab ab kaafi hadd tak aapki baateN mere chote se bheje me ghustee nazar aa rahi hain...

lekin jaisaa ke aapne kaha hai ke FB se dual personality waali baat hoti hai aur mental stress hota hai.... lekin jaisaa ke maine dekhahai , zyadatar waqt akelepean me jab hum net pe jaate hain... facebook pe login karte hain, to wo saare dost maoujood hoe hain jo SDC ke bhihain, school, colleges ke hain.. aur wahan pe mahaz shayri nahi , jokes, stories, photos videos sab hota hai, isliye wo ek entertainment ka complete package hota hai...
isliye most of the working guys use to spend time in FB to take some relief... sath hi chat ho jati hai, purane dost milte hain to in sab se khushi hi haasil hoti hai...

Stress waali baat logical to lagtiihai par practical nahi.... ho sakta hai kuch logon ko aisi cheeezen acchi nahi lagtii... lekin its totally depends from person to person..

SDC ko nuksaan pahoch raha hai.... to uski wajah bas yahi hai ke logon ka rujhaan FB ki taraf badhta ja raha hai.. aur wo isliye ke wo unhe mental stress se chutkara dilaati hai...

ye mera maanna hai, aur zaruri nahi hai ke sahi ho.. magar ye open topic for discussion hai isliye maine bhi apni baat rakh di hai...

Zidd sahab aapke nazariye ka intzara rahega ispe..

Shaad...
aapki is baat se koi do raaye nahi ho sakta ki FB sabko alag alag tarah se effect karti hai....

sabse badi baat ye ki agar FB itni khraab cheez hoti to itni hit hi nahi hoti...

magar baat ye bhi to hai ki cigarette aur beer kharaab cheeze hai aur hit bhi !!!

aur hyrat ki baat ye bhi hai ki jab koi shaks cigarette ya sharaab peeta hai to usko immediate releif ka ehsaans hota hai, matlab destress ho jata hai...
magar ye baat to sabko pata hai ki dono ke long term effect 'stress' aur depression ke roots hai.

ye to zaahir hai ki FB addictive hai.kyuki aapko bahut acchi lagti hai...ab jo accha lagta hai us kaam ko baar baar karne ka mann karta hai... so agar control na kiya jaaye (ya kisise control ho hi na)...to addiction ho jayega.

ab kisi cheez ke aadi huye nahi ke problems shuru ho jaate hai....ab aap Fb par na jaao ya na jaa sako to temporary stress ka sabab banega..

aap Fb par hon aur koi mil jaaaye jisse aap baat na karna chahte ho ,magar vo aapke peeche laga hi hai...aur aap naa nahi bol sakte ...to stress ka sabab banega....aur is tarah ki bahut saari baate aaap khud hi add kar sakte hain.
ye sab long term me depression ka reason ho saktin hain.

kyuki FB ek general site hai..aapke life ke har pahlu ko cover karne ke saamaan waha maujood hai...aap usse peecha chudaa nahi sakte...kyuki vo multi faceted hai...jaise ki aapka shayri karne ka mann nahi phir bhi aap waha jaooge...kyuki aapke bacpan ke dost hain waha...ab shayri bhi nahi karni aur bachpan ke dosto se bhi milne ka mann nahi phir bhi jaooge kyuki aapka boss waha par hai.....aap chah kar bhi peecha nahi chudaa sakte.

magar agar aapke shayri karne ka mann nahi ya shayri se judne ka mann nahi temporirili, to aap bina kisi prob ke SDC ko zindagi se nikaal sakte hai....

iska proof aap khud hain...aap ek puraane member hai...beech me mann nahi kiya aap bina kisi takleef ke SDC par nahi aaye....aur jab mann kiya to phir aa gaye...on & on & on.
   
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aapki is baat se koi do raaye nahi ho sakta ki FB sabko alag alag tarah se effect karti hai....

sabse badi baat ye ki agar FB itni khraab cheez hoti to itni hit hi nahi hoti...

magar baat ye bhi to hai ki cigarette aur beer kharaab cheeze hai aur hit bhi !!!

aur hyrat ki baat ye bhi hai ki jab koi shaks cigarette ya sharaab peeta hai to usko immediate releif ka ehsaans hota hai, matlab destress ho jata hai...
magar ye baat to sabko pata hai ki dono ke long term effect 'stress' aur depression ke roots hai.

ye to zaahir hai ki FB addictive hai.kyuki aapko bahut acchi lagti hai...ab jo accha lagta hai us kaam ko baar baar karne ka mann karta hai... so agar control na kiya jaaye (ya kisise control ho hi na)...to addiction ho jayega.

ab kisi cheez ke aadi huye nahi ke problems shuru ho jaate hai....ab aap Fb par na jaao ya na jaa sako to temporary stress ka sabab banega..

aap Fb par hon aur koi mil jaaaye jisse aap baat na karna chahte ho ,magar vo aapke peeche laga hi hai...aur aap naa nahi bol sakte ...to stress ka sabab banega....aur is tarah ki bahut saari baate aaap khud hi add kar sakte hain.
ye sab long term me depression ka reason ho saktin hain.

kyuki FB ek general site hai..aapke life ke har pahlu ko cover karne ke saamaan waha maujood hai...aap usse peecha chudaa nahi sakte...kyuki vo multi faceted hai...jaise ki aapka shayri karne ka mann nahi phir bhi aap waha jaooge...kyuki aapke bacpan ke dost hain waha...ab shayri bhi nahi karni aur bachpan ke dosto se bhi milne ka mann nahi phir bhi jaooge kyuki aapka boss waha par hai.....aap chah kar bhi peecha nahi chudaa sakte.

magar agar aapke shayri karne ka mann nahi ya shayri se judne ka mann nahi temporirili, to aap bina kisi prob ke SDC ko zindagi se nikaal sakte hai....

iska proof aap khud hain...aap ek puraane member hai...beech me mann nahi kiya aap bina kisi takleef ke SDC par nahi aaye....aur jab mann kiya to phir aa gaye...on & on & on.

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aapki is baat se koi do raaye nahi ho sakta ki FB sabko alag alag tarah se effect karti hai....

sabse badi baat ye ki agar FB itni khraab cheez hoti to itni hit hi nahi hoti...

magar baat ye bhi to hai ki cigarette aur beer kharaab cheeze hai aur hit bhi !!!

aur hyrat ki baat ye bhi hai ki jab koi shaks cigarette ya sharaab peeta hai to usko immediate releif ka ehsaans hota hai, matlab destress ho jata hai...
magar ye baat to sabko pata hai ki dono ke long term effect 'stress' aur depression ke roots hai.

ye to zaahir hai ki FB addictive hai.kyuki aapko bahut acchi lagti hai...ab jo accha lagta hai us kaam ko baar baar karne ka mann karta hai... so agar control na kiya jaaye (ya kisise control ho hi na)...to addiction ho jayega.

ab kisi cheez ke aadi huye nahi ke problems shuru ho jaate hai....ab aap Fb par na jaao ya na jaa sako to temporary stress ka sabab banega..

aap Fb par hon aur koi mil jaaaye jisse aap baat na karna chahte ho ,magar vo aapke peeche laga hi hai...aur aap naa nahi bol sakte ...to stress ka sabab banega....aur is tarah ki bahut saari baate aaap khud hi add kar sakte hain.
ye sab long term me depression ka reason ho saktin hain.

kyuki FB ek general site hai..aapke life ke har pahlu ko cover karne ke saamaan waha maujood hai...aap usse peecha chudaa nahi sakte...kyuki vo multi faceted hai...jaise ki aapka shayri karne ka mann nahi phir bhi aap waha jaooge...kyuki aapke bacpan ke dost hain waha...ab shayri bhi nahi karni aur bachpan ke dosto se bhi milne ka mann nahi phir bhi jaooge kyuki aapka boss waha par hai.....aap chah kar bhi peecha nahi chudaa sakte.

magar agar aapke shayri karne ka mann nahi ya shayri se judne ka mann nahi temporirili, to aap bina kisi prob ke SDC ko zindagi se nikaal sakte hai....

iska proof aap khud hain...aap ek puraane member hai...beech me mann nahi kiya aap bina kisi takleef ke SDC par nahi aaye....aur jab mann kiya to phir aa gaye...on & on & on.
jis stress aur tension ki baat aap kar rahe hain, woh tou sdc se bhi related hai...hum sdc per na ho tou bhi yahaan ki tension lagi rehti hai ke peeche kya ho raha hoga..

infact yeh stress tou har bande ko hamesha hi lagi rehti hai..ghar per ho tou baaher ki tension, baaher ho tou ghar ki tension...yeh tension tou saath saath hai hi hamesha sab ke saath..and we cannot run away from it...

what i mean to say is why blame only fb...i know we are completely off topic now..

shayed ab hum fb ke faide aur nuqsaan per bol rahe hain..

frankly speaking i dont find any harm in fb....agar dil na chahe tou sdc bhi chhod sakte hain fb bhi...

lekin fb se faida yeh hai ke hum logon ke nazdeek reh sakte hain...we r in touch with our frnds and relatives, jab fb nahi tha tou saalo saal kisi se baat nahi hoti thi, aur contantly ek depression rehta tha ke hum apno se door hogaye, ek feeling rehti thi ke apni hi life me busy hogaye aur baqi duniya se alag hogaye.......ab aysa lagta hai jaise sab aas paas hi hain, sab ke dukh sukh me saath hain...

aap khud kabhi fb per aayiye tou aapko khud difference mehsoos hoga..

infact mujhe tou fb se ulta stress kam hota hai....

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jis stress aur tension ki baat aap kar rahe hain, woh tou sdc se bhi related hai...hum sdc per na ho tou bhi yahaan ki tension lagi rehti hai ke peeche kya ho raha hoga..

vo sirf mods ko madam, ye aapke applicable hai , common members ke liye nahi.


infact yeh stress tou har bande ko hamesha hi lagi rehti hai..ghar per ho tou baaher ki tension, baaher ho tou ghar ki tension...yeh tension tou saath saath hai hi hamesha sab ke saath..and we cannot run away from it...

to uska double karke faida kya ?

what i mean to say is why blame only fb...i know we are completely off topic now..

shayed ab hum fb ke faide aur nuqsaan per bol rahe hain..

frankly speaking i dont find any harm in fb....agar dil na chahe tou sdc bhi chhod sakte hain fb bhi...

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lekin fb se faida yeh hai ke hum logon ke nazdeek reh sakte hain...we r in touch with our frnds and relatives, jab fb nahi tha tou saalo saal kisi se baat nahi hoti thi, aur contantly ek depression rehta tha ke hum apno se door hogaye, ek feeling rehti thi ke apni hi life me busy hogaye aur baqi duniya se alag hogaye.......ab aysa lagta hai jaise sab aas paas hi hain, sab ke dukh sukh me saath hain...

aap khud kabhi fb per aayiye tou aapko khud difference mehsoos hoga..

mujhe gandi aadate jaldi lagti hai. mujme control aur will power nahi...jitna door rahu utna accha hai.

infact mujhe tou fb se ulta stress kam hota hai....

iska jawwab hi to upar diya hai....jisko aap releif samjh rahin hain wahi maraz hai.

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jis stress aur tension ki baat aap kar rahe hain, woh tou sdc se bhi related hai...hum sdc per na ho tou bhi yahaan ki tension lagi rehti hai ke peeche kya ho raha hoga..

Infact yeh stress tou har bande ko hamesha hi lagi rehti hai..ghar per ho tou baaher ki tension, baaher ho tou ghar ki tension...yeh tension tou saath saath hai hi hamesha sab ke saath..and we cannot run away from it...

What i mean to say is why blame only fb...i know we are completely off topic now..

Shayed ab hum fb ke faide aur nuqsaan per bol rahe hain..:d

frankly speaking i dont find any harm in fb....agar dil na chahe tou sdc bhi chhod sakte hain fb bhi...

Lekin fb se faida yeh hai ke hum logon ke nazdeek reh sakte hain...we r in touch with our frnds and relatives, jab fb nahi tha tou saalo saal kisi se baat nahi hoti thi, aur contantly ek depression rehta tha ke hum apno se door hogaye, ek feeling rehti thi ke apni hi life me busy hogaye aur baqi duniya se alag hogaye.......ab aysa lagta hai jaise sab aas paas hi hain, sab ke dukh sukh me saath hain...

Aap khud kabhi fb per aayiye tou aapko khud difference mehsoos hoga..:d

infact mujhe tou fb se ulta stress kam hota hai....

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..lol....come on!!..... this time it was a typo...

mere saath pata hai kya masla hai... I hardly recheck my posts before posting them , har post me aapko mistakes milenge...kahaan time waste kar rahe ho aap...




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Jai ho maharaaj ki...............:P

zidd sahab aap tou antaryaami ho...gyani ho..infact maha purush ho...

ab duvidha pata chal hi gayi hai tou koi upaay bhi tou bataiye guruji , is kasht se mukti ka......

Hum tou kab se prayaas kar rahe haiN ke sdc, fb dono ko tyaag deiN...per buri laT lag gayiN haiN chhooTti hi nahi..

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Jai ho maharaaj ki...............:P

zidd sahab aap tou antaryaami ho...gyani ho..infact maha purush ho...

ab duvidha pata chal hi gayi hai tou koi upaay bhi tou bataiye guruji , is kasht se mukti ka......

Hum tou kab se prayaas kar rahe haiN ke sdc, fb dono ko tyaag deiN...per buri laT lag gayiN haiN chhooTti hi nahi..

lol..................
baalike ham aapko aapki samasya ka samaadhaan avashya batayenge...

ek hi samay me dono ko tyaagne ka vichaar uchit nahi...
isse maansik santulan khone ka bhay hai.

aap pratham ek ko tyaage ,uske pashchyaat aap purN tarah se retire hone me taiyyar ho jayenge.

pahli site se bidaai tapasya hai aur phir duyyam site se retirement aapki prapti.

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baalike ham aapko aapki samasya ka samaadhaan avashya batayenge...

ek hi samay me dono ko tyaagne ka vichaar uchit nahi...
isse maansik santulan khone ka bhay hai.

aap pratham ek ko tyaage ,uske pashchyaat aap purN tarah se retire hone me taiyyar ho jayenge.

pahli site se bidaai tapasya hai aur phir duyyam site se retirement aapki prapti.

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Guruji zara saral bhasha me samjhayenge tou kripa hogi...

Hum jaise sadharan manushya ko itni kathin bhasha samajh nahi aati..

Yeh bidaai tapasya kya hoti hai.......?




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Guruji zara saral bhasha me samjhayenge tou kripa hogi...

Hum jaise sadharan manushya ko itni kathin bhasha samajh nahi aati..

Yeh bidaai tapasya kya hoti hai.......?

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Aur yeh practice ke liye practice kaise karte hain....

Zara step by step bataiye




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Aur yeh practice ke liye practice kaise karte hain....

Zara step by step bataiye
no problem...magar uske liye kuch info ki zarurat hogi

1] aap pahle kaunsi site choDna chahti hai
2] kyu choDna chahtin hai
3] time frame kya hai , dono ka

ye pahle bataiye...use mai process karta hu...

phir ek sawaal ki ferist pesh pesh karunga sara data analyse karke...

phir aap uska jawaab dijiyega..

phir analysis hoga...aur usse utpan huye naye sawaal poochen jayenge...

jab ye silsila khatm ho jayega ....

to aapko step by step 'how to do' ka jawaab mil jayega

haa...ek kaam aap kar sakti hai aap..

agar itne rigmorale se nahi guzarna hai to jo sawaal maine aapko poocha hai abhi..use hi step by step tarika samjh lijiye
   
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no problem...magar uske liye kuch info ki zarurat hogi

1] aap pahle kaunsi site choDna chahti hai
2] kyu choDna chahtin hai
3] time frame kya hai , dono ka

ye pahle bataiye...use mai process karta hu...

phir ek sawaal ki ferist pesh pesh karunga sara data analyse karke...

phir aap uska jawaab dijiyega..

phir analysis hoga...aur usse utpan huye naye sawaal poochen jayenge...

jab ye silsila khatm ho jayega ....

to aapko step by step 'how to do' ka jawaab mil jayega

haa...ek kaam aap kar sakti hai aap..

agar itne rigmorale se nahi guzarna hai to jo sawaal maine aapko poocha hai abhi..use hi step by step tarika samjh lijiye
Hmmmm...kuch kuch samajh me aa gaya hai....

Chaliye practice shuru kar deti huun...




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HAHAHAHA...


Ab tou mujhe pakka yaqeeN hogaya hai , aap zaroor kisi school me grammar ke teacher ho...

..lol....come on!!..... this time it was a typo...

mere saath pata hai kya masla hai... I hardly recheck my posts before posting them , har post me aapko mistakes milenge...kahaan time waste kar rahe ho aap...
Aadaab Behna,, aray nahee baba... hum koi teacher waghaira nahee hayn... aur gar hotay tou...... Khuda jaanay!
Yes Sis, I did know it was a typo bus... daykha ki wahan baat stress ki chal rahee thee tou socha thoda distress... I mean de-stress kia jaayay logaon ko... thats what I do... de-stress people

On a diff note I will in the coming foew days send you some info re why fb ain't that good!!


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